HOW YOUR BIRTH AFFECTS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
The type of birth you had influences your personality and your relationships. No matter what kind of birth you had – normal, caesarian, forceps, premature, or other kind of delivery – your latent memories of birth and the way you were treated because of it, have long-reaching effects in your life and in your relationships.
Birth has been quite traumatic, it entailed moving from the liquid environment of the womb to the atmosphere. This is something like taking a fish from water, hurling it on the shore, and expecting it to breathe. Dr. F. LeBoyer says birth is like landing on the moon without any preparations.
So, this big change was accompanied with a lot of pain and followed by even more (a spanking upside down), and you, the baby, got the thought that: “Change hurts- change is very painful”.
You therefore got stuck at levels you should have already moved past, because you are paralysed with the fear of getting hurt, which leads to destructive behaviour.
Since birth was the first major change, any lingering, unconscious fears you have from birth, affect how safe you feel with any change: change of job; moving to a new home; beginning or leaving a relationship, as well as creating the changes necessary to maintain a loving relationship; and so forth. You are free to the extent that you feel safe to explore change.
Resistance to change produces unreasonable stress – medically acknowledged source of a wide variety of illnesses.
In order to heal ourselves, we must change. In order to have harmony in our relationships, we must change. In order to have peace on earth, we must change. Change leads to unity.
Change can be fun, pleasurable, easy, natural, and bring more good to everyone.
Many are now creating an awareness of the necessity of a more conscious and enlightened conception, pregnancy and delivery, the purpose of this is to reduce or prevent prenatal and birth trauma to the newborn, and to make the delivery as easy and as “conscious” as possible for everyone concerned.
Because the conclusions we make at birth, become the unconscious legacy of our lives, I, as a qualified professional Rebirther, present a definitive guide to learning about the connection between your birth type and your relationships, and provide the tools to begin the healing process.
There are many thousands of people, who have successfully unravelled the effects of their births on their relationships, and who are now living a fuller, more integrated love life as a result.
May you be inspired to do the same.
Make the changes in your life and relationships, be it with your spouse, your children, your parents, your boss, or your colleagues, by:
- By paying clear attention to the type of birth you had, seeing the truth tends to heal.
- By adopting new thinking and using affirmations given, to overcome your particular type of Birth-trauma.
- By practising a simple, yet highly effective, breathing technique that consciously brings fresh life energy into your mind and body & releases tension. This breathing session takes approximately 45 minutes and is done together with the Rebirther.
It has been such a relief to discover answers to behaviours that troubled me and to let go of these old associations which has brought me increasing liberation, freedom, trust, joy & understanding of relationships, and has created a change for the better.
For over twenty five years, I have been dedicated to this work, i.e. to help heal people of their birth trauma, so that they have a better relationship with themselves and therefore with others.
This work is also dedicated to all future souls who wish to be born to conscious parents who are willing to provide for them the most whole atmosphere possible.
May people in this world, improve the birth process by supporting optimal natural birthing and changing birth practices, so as to make it possible for young women to become conscious about being more enlightened in the future deliveries of their children, thus affecting the future generations positively. May we erase birth trauma, and contribute to a higher quality of life on earth.
